Dear Readers, Happy August!
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Blessings on your August, and on with the devotional!
there is a fellowship of saints hiding in plain sight among the least of these, the wicked stings the giant eyes the buzzing wings and when I wonder which is friend and which is foe, the Creator smiles and whispers: give only love to those below; all the rest is for Me to know.
There are paper wasps living in our greenhouse. In fact, every year for the last few years they’ve taken up residence there, crawling in through an exterior gap into a space where a bustling community exists in the wall, unseen.
I don’t bother with them, largely because they have never bothered with me. Paper wasps are among the group of stripey, sting-bearing insects that get blamed for the transgressions of others in their type. While yellow jackets and hornets will bite and sting seemingly for no reason, and ground bees often throw themselves at an innocent passerby who had no idea there were vast nests underfoot, paper wasps are relatively docile, especially away from their nests. While they will protect themselves or their homes if provoked, they don’t go out of their way to find trouble. Researchers have even reported that in lab settings, with nothing to defend, wasps are a downright pleasure to work with, even amiable.
Additionally, wasps are quite beneficial insects. Not as “cute” and marketable as bees, they nevertheless mostly eat nectar as adults and spend their days pollinating flowers and fruit trees. When they do eat a more carnivorous diet—mainly to feed their young—they target caterpillars, the ones that often destroy leafy plants. A true friend to the gardener, despite their fearsome looks!
Whenever I see the paper wasps buzzing busily in and out of the greenhouse, it reminds me that I am the worst judge of who around me is friend or foe. I bring my judgments and biases to every encounter. I jump to conclusions. I withhold grace. It happens more often than I like to admit.
Even so, the command given to me is clear as can be: Show love. Share compassion. Extend grace. Let God take care of the rest.
Beyond that exists the knowledge that only God knows. But if we trust that He Is Who He Says He Is, our call to gracious, generous living—even with the most misunderstood of His creatures—will never be misplaced.
And we may even find friends where we feared we would find enemies.
Discussion Question:
In what unexpected places has God been calling you to show grace, lately? With a person, with a situation, with yourself…? And how have you reacted to that call?
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I've certainly needed a bit of grace and forgiveness for myself here lately. I am having a difficult time transitioning to a two child household and remembering that getting certain tasks done around the house is simply not the same as it was just a month ago.
I feel guilty when I let the grass get "too long" or the dishes sit unattended longer than usual or when laundry baskets sit unfolded. I will allow myself to feel like a man who is not taking care of what he has been given.
What I have to recognize is that what's important, God has provided. We have plenty of food, good shelter and our expenses are in order. AND my children are played with, read to and they know we love them. Some days, that’s the best we can manage haha.
Grace to self, lately, I think. Self talk is notoriously bad all the time, but i've been slowly working on gently climbing out of my brain. A lot of times when I have goals it's usually frenetic "you gotta do this! be different!" I'm trying to turn myself into a jetski when I'm a sailboat. Gotta enjoy the journey and trust that i'll get there eventually.